Hello Being Practical

I'm sorry to hear about your Mum's recent diagnosis. Undoubtedly this will have been difficult news for you all to hear and it's natural that you may be experiencing different thoughts and emotions. 

I think that everyone has different ways of coping with these kinds of life events and for some people, it may be going into "practical" mode is a way of coping and protecting yourself from some of the strong emotions that you might be experiencing. Try not to read too much into it at this point. The important thing now is that you're able to spend quality time with your Mum, whether that's via video or phone calls during the week or visits at the weekend, take each day at a time and enjoy each other's company. 

If you want to chat things through with one of our nurses at any point you're most welcome to give them a call on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm. 

Sending my best wishes to you and your Mum. 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator