So sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment... sometimes the Drs know when it would cause even more pain for some to be put through treatments... and although you want to try anything, it may be kinder not to see her go through more that may not help her ..

Having someone hold our hands in these times mean a lot ... try to understand that she just needs you there to help her through .. your not alone, as many on here, will understand as we've had to do the same for those we love ... sending you a vertual hug... Chrissie x 

So sorry you are all going through that. Stength of will is a very important part of fighting cancer so I hope your Mum opts to fight this. We all support you in your struggle xx