Cookie 

hoid luck for your results it's a anxious wait I've been there this happened 3 times for me had the lunpectomy and sentil node had one positive node so then had another operation removed 30 nodes another wait thankfully all came clear then I had another wait for Oncotype score after this thankfully no chemo required so was tantrums along the way but it was all fine in the end 

good luck keep busy let us no how you got on 

big hugs love Lara ️

Hi Cookie,

What a pity that you won't be seeing your own consultant on Wednesday. Try not to worry - at least he did your surgery and hopefully he got clear margins at the time. 

I am so glad to hear that you are healing well and are happy with the results. It's not long now till Wednesday and I'm keeping everything crossed for good news.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Good Morning Lara

Thanks you your reply. I am feeling calmer this morning and more like 'what will be will be'.

I know it is said a lot on this forum but the waiting for results is far harder than going through the actual treatment!

I shall let you know how I get in tomorrow 

Cookie x

Morning Jolamine

Thank you again for your reply. It was another wobble yesterday and feeling better today.

This forum and you lovely ladies are fantastic for just getting it all out without any judgement!

I am sure whoever I see tomorrow will be lovely and have to think that it doesn't matter who delivers the results, what will be will be and no amount of worrying will change that! I can be quite level headed but some days just spiral downwards!

I will let you know how I get on 

Cookie x

Good morning Esta

Thank you for taking the time to reply and I am sorry that you are going through the worry again. Sending you lots of love and a virtual hug!
 

I know our families mean well but it is very annoying when you try to discuss how you are feeling and if it is worries or anxieties then you are being negative! I try to explain that I can't help the way I am feeling and that I have to keep some realism in order to be able to deal with whatever comes next but get told I don't need to think like that!! 
I know they mean well and most of the time don't want to see me down and upset but it is all part of the rollercoaster of emotions but don't think they know how to deal with it.

Where are you up to now after the mammogram, are you waiting for your appointment?

Cookie x
 

Cookie 

I really hope you get a good result and you can move on don't forget about the  the Oncotype DX if it's something you think will help that helped me tremendously in coming through the other side 

let us no how you get on 

love Lara ️

Hi Lara

At present my diagnosis is DCIS. If nothing invasive is found when I get my results tomorrow, would they still consider the oncotype DX, with there being no tumour? 
Sorry if that sounds a silly question
 

Cookie x

Cookie 

I don't think they would consider but worth a ask 

good luck again big hugs 

love Lara ️

Hi - yes it's so frustrating that everyone keeps saying think positive blah blah blah but they don't realise how scared we feel - mostly of the unknown. I was positive last time then got the diagnosis and it knocked me sideways so expecting the worst this time from the start.

I had my 3 year mammogram in Feb and received letter last week saying there are changes in other side so need a biopsy ... here we go again  

it's now booked for next Monday and I am counting the hours although won't know anything obviously. Worst part was told yesterday that I will get the results in a letter - not even a face to face appointment. So that will take weeks also it's just awful. 
the waiting is definitely the worst part.

gooe you get your results quickly and it's is positive news x