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Mum newly diagnosed with oral cancer which has spread

claire18kai
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Hi, My mum has just been diagnosed with oral cancer which has spread to her her neck. She is to undergo a very big operation followed by radiotherapy and i just wanted to chat with other members that are being supportive to family members having to go through cancer treatment and the support they are offering.

I'm trying to be postive and strong for my mum but I'm struggling emotionally myself.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

 

  • A very warm welcome to Cancer Chat Claire although I'm sorry to hear about your mum's diagnosis.

    This must be a very difficult time for the both of you but I'm glad you've joined us as we have a very supportive community who will really understand what you're going through right now, so you are not alone, and I'm sure you will receive some support and advice from our members soon.

    Caring for a loved one with cancer is very tough, but I hope some of the tips and advice we have for family members will help.

    You can also talk things through with our cancer nurses on 0808 800 4040. Their phone lines are open Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m and they will do all they can to support you and answer any questions you may have about your mum's diagnosis and/or treatment at this time.

    I hope this helps and all goes well with your mum's treatment.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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    I have only just joined this forum and perhaps the delay in replying is too long. 12 years ago I had part of my tongue removed and a partial neck dissection to remove lymph nodes a couple of which were problematic so I had 4 weeks of RT. If you or your mum would like to ask me anything please feel free. The bottom line is that I am still here and lead a normal life albeit with some minor speech issues and swallowing difficulties. 

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