Hello ladies, I also know my husband is just at the stage of getting tests done, to be honest I am freaked out, he was telling our GP for  a long time he is having problems with his bladder, then a few weeks ago he was very unwell UTI so the dr said, my husband is 74 and I have seen a decline in him recently, while he was ill he completely lost control of his bladder, I insisted we see a urologist privately if the NHS were not prepared to listen.

this week on Monday the urologist put a camera into his blader all looks fine, but his prostate gland is enlarged and hard in places, he had a CT scan yesterday he is having his blood done to check levels next week, I am beside myself with worry I am very concerned there is something in his prostate it's very difficult, I think you are very brave