Hello Lealeah

I'm sorry to hear about your partner's diagnosis and that work aren't particularly supportive at the moment for you. It's already a difficult time and undoubtedly this is an additional worry that you don't need. 

Hopefully, you and your employer may be able to come to a mutually agreeable arrangement that means you can take your partner to his treatment appointments if necessary. 

I know that we have some members who have had R-CHOP and hopefully they will post to share their experiences with you. Not everyone experiences every side effect so it may be that your partner feels up to driving to and from his appointments but if he isn't well enough, and you're not able to be there with him, then do encourage him to talk to the chemo unit as they should be able to arrange patient transport with the ambulance service. 

I hope that his first treatment next week goes smoothly. Keep in touch and let us know how you're both doing. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator