Hi [@simone91x]‍ 

Firstly all the best for tomorrow and I hope your surgery goes well, I am sure it will. I had a lumpectomy and sentinel node biopsy, (no lymph node involvement, hormone +ve HER2 negative). I was up and about the same afternoon, I looked a little blue (from the dye ) but was ok which only lasted that day. The most painful site was where they had taken the lymph nodes from, my boob was ok. I was up and about and went for a walk the next day and started the exercises I was given. A bit sore for the first week but nothing the ibuprofen they gave me didn't sort out. 

I was very lucky and didn't need chemo, my tumour was downgraded from grade 3 to grade 2 after surgery, and my tissue was sent to the US for Oncotype scoring which showed that chemo wasn't beneficial.

All the very best for tomorrow, and good luck for the next stage in your journey xx

Hello there,

I concur with 123Nelly. I too had grade 2 19mm tumour ER+ HER-. I was sent home same day although I felt a bit sick after the anaesthetic. It didn't last long, I was back home enjoying my takeaway at 6pm. Blue boob from the dye, practically no pain from surgery site, just some bruising but where the pesky lymph node was removed stung quite a bit, probably as there are a lot of nerve endings in your arm pit. You'll be absolutely fine, just do the exercises you're given as they really do help. Good luck!

Let us know how you go on.

Jane xx

Dear Simone, 

Im 38 and am on the other side, in October I was diagnosed with Invasive Ductal Carcicoma Stage 1 grade 3, 20mm Node Negative Her2- oestrogen Fed. 
 

i had a lumpectomy, went twice to get clear margins, they took two nodes out to check. FEC-T Chemo 6 in total 1 every three weeks, 8 sessions of Radiotherapy and I'm now on Anastrole tablets and prostap injections. 
My Tumor was sent to America to get my Oncotype DX score but due to my age and grade I had to have Chemo.!

The Lumpectomy is fine! It was my armpit that gave me the most Discomfort. Take the pain killers as they prescribe and make sure you get nice soft front fastening bra's, the anesethic was the worse for me but again it was ok. Yes you will able to look after your daughter if you go steady.

Chemo is tough but do-able. You don't get all the Side Effects your told about and what you do get only lasts a week after Your chemo day. The first was hard because you don't know how you will feel, I wrote a diary of what I felt like so the next time I was prepared. I also used the cold cap, I lost 40 percent of my hair but I had really think long blonde hair that I absolutely loved. 
 

here if you need too ask anything. I just want you to know that things do get better, it's been nearly a year and I'm starting to feel like he again.

i wish you well for tomorrow, xxx
 

love Sarah 

Hi Simone 

I had a lumpectomy and SN in July the operation went great recovery was very quick I was out for coffee in 2 days no pain whatsoever xx good luck 

Hi everyone,

Thank you for all your lovey replies and experiences - means the world. Thought I'd reply to my post so you can all see rather than reply individually. Like you all I'm home and had something to eat. Surgery was around 12 and was home back of 5, allowed to leave at 4. Feeling a little nauseous and a little achey, like you all said, near armpit but breast is fine. Surgeon prescribed co-codamol (30/500) which are helping. They took 4 biopsies from nodes and will hear from hospital next week. 

Sending love back to you all xxx

Glad you're ok Simone91x. Resist the temptation to do anything for a couple of days at least, chill out with lots of brews, daytime TV and biccies. You'll be fine and we are all here for you

Jane xx

Hi Simone 

gkad all went well today , rest up take care big hugs xx