I forgot to add, I've just turned 41 xx

Hi 

thanks for your reply 

I have two girls age 11 and 6 so hard just have the worst sick feeling all the time 

Have to try and be positive but really hard 

Xx

It's so hard. My daughter is 15. The look and pain on her face since I told her is killing me. 
 

The positivity is so hard, I've had to take myself out for a walk each day just to escape. Everyone is being so kind and supportive but in reality I'm so angry at cancer and I just need to scream, cry and be alone for some time. 
 

xx

Hi Linda2022. and  Lol1988,

I'm 44. Still waiting for results.  Seeing Consultant next Monday 22nd as on holiday at the moment. I have a 6cm lump and had biopsy of lymph nodes too. 

I have a 5 year old boy. I also have chronic conditions and felt I was just getting ready to try to get back into work etc and this spanner shows up.

I'm taking heart in the fact that there are treatment options and that we're in the system.

But it's important to let out the anger and sadness too.

  I've had so much illness in my life. I'm literally sick of it.

And being so young, 34 & 41 & 44 feels particularly cruel. 

Thinking of you both. 

Natbythesea xxx

Sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Cancer strikes at any age, but you have youth on your side to bounce back more quickly. I am sure you will find support on here. It's scary at first but you will feel better when you have a treatment plan.  I too had a lump removed and cancer was in 2 of my lymph nodes, that was in 2019 and here I am feeling well.

wishing you all the best

Silver 

Me I'm 38 I'm going through it I have a lump it's in my lymph nodes and just had ct scan to see if it's spread I'm very new was only diagnosed Friday you're not alone lovely xx

Hi 

so sorry you are going through this aswell 

do you have to wait long for the CT scan 

thank Lauren 

I had it yesterday but don't get the results till 2nd September I'm going to say for me this is the worse bit

I understand try and stay strong xx