Endometrial cancer

I have had a whirlwind couple of weeks which started with a vaginal discharge. I am 67 years old and went through the menopause over 10 years ago, so you.can understand that I was worried as the discharge was what looked like old blood. I made an appointment to see my doctor the day after and she gave me an examination. She referred me tothe hospital. My appointment followed less than a week later and I had an external and internal scan. She found a polyp and thickening of the womb and said she would contact my doctor that day. My doctor called me the same day to say she had referred me urgently to the gynaecologist at the hospital for a hystoroscopy and biopsy. This appointment was also within a week, last week, where they found 2 polyps. I was told the results would be about 3 weeks but today I have had a call from the hospital to say the polyps are cancerous. They are making an urgent appointment for an MRI before they decide on treatment. The doctor said I will most likely need a hysterectomy, but we will have to wait for the result of the MRI.

I am still reeling from all of this and have not told anyone except my husband. I will wait until after the MRI which hopefully will show that the cancer has not spread and is only the polyps. I am shaking and weepy and struggling to hold things together at the moment and terrified that the MRI result will be bad. I only hope I can keep it together when we meet up with our children and grandchildren this holiday. We are a close family and I am sure these last 4 weeks they have noticed I have been a bit pre occupied, but I don't want them to worry when hopefully it won't be necessary.

How have others dealt with this I wonder.

  • Hi

     

    I'm so sorry for what you are going through, but please speak with your family and be open... They will be there for you, support you and love you... which is what you need. My mum got diognosed with multiple myeloma and I was grateful as her daughter, to know and help her with the process, I couldn't honestly stres this to you enough. I am now going through fast track myself for suspected womb cancer and couldn't do it without my mum. Don't face this alone! ️

    Wishing you the best of luck with your journey

    Xxx ️

  • Thank you for your reply.
    Today I am feeling a little calmer and I am beginning to process what is happening. I hope to hear about the MRI very soon and then we know what we are dealing with. I fully intend to tell my children and my family what is going on as soon as we know. I just feel that I need to know and be able to tell them in a calm way with as much information as I can. My husband is helping me through this and he understands why I want to wait. 
    I am sorry to hear you are going through the same thing, and hope you and your mother are ok. It must be awful for the both of you to have to do this twice.

    good luck to both of you

  • I was diagonoised with Endrometrial Cancer Grade 1 yesterday and your worries about staging are exactly the same as me. I was quite cheerful yesterday as it was grade 1, and woke up panicing about if its spread too. I expect we will face good and bad days, and hours, as we go through treatment. I am repling to say your worries are completely normal and you are not alone. 

    Unlike you I have told my family. Oddly I have found talking about it really helpful, so far, it seems less scary when shared, and allows others to be supportive. As women we hold things together, remember birthdays, do the washing, clean the loo, make dinner, and a thousand other tasks and life admin, but for once in your life you need to be selfish, lazy, and please yourself, so do whatever works for you. If its working keeping quiet then thats ok, however I will share no one in my family has been anything less than amazing, said the wrong thing or been dismissive, all I have recieved is care, love and positivity. Yes, my family will be worried but I ask you to consider if it was someone else in your family would you want to know, would you want to help, would you want to love and care for them? Maybe it will all turn out ok and you wont get a diagnosis like mine, but all the love you have showered your family with all these years.... its time they pay it back, and in my experience they will and will want to be there for you.

    I send you my love for a positive outcome and remind you whatever you decide you are not alone, I am here for you at the very least x 

  • Hi

    How are you doing?  Have you received any news yet?  I'm still anxiously waiting.

    Just wanted to check in and pass on my love and thoughts to you!  ️♥️X

  • Hi,

    Thank you for your support, it means a lot to me.
    I have just had the results of my MRI and thankfully it shows that the cancer has not spread. I have been told it is type 1a. I am now waiting to hear from the hospital for the date of my hysterectomy which will be done via keyhole surgery. 
    I am so sorry that you are still waiting for your results, and I hope you have good news very soon. Please let me know when you hear anything. 

    Big hugs,

  • Hi

     

    I'm so very pleased it's not spread and you can hopefully get the operation soon, keeping everything crossed for you and wishing you a speedy recovery 

     

    Best wishes Anna x ️

  • Hi Anna,

    Just a line to see how you are doing. Have you had  any news yet?

    I hope you have had some good news and that things are moving along more quickly for you now.


    sending love and best wishes your way,

    Kath

    p.s. My operation I scheduled for 9th September.

     

  • Hi 

    Thank you for asking, I actually got my results yesterday ~ I'm all clear for endometrial cancer, so it's hyperplasia.. the letter was vague to be honest but I have to just have the treatment for the thickening. 

    Best of luck for your anticipated surgery, I'll have everything crossed for you hunni. 

    All my love Anna xx ️

  • Hi, I'm 58 and gone through the path ur on last March. Anxiety overtook all my thinking, but now I'm now 17 month past my hysterectomy, (which I might add was so much easier then thought it would be) but although those bad thoughts show their ugly head every once in a while each month that goes past the less the panic is there.

    Wish u luck and hope ur op goes well x

  • Hi,

    Thank you for your message. I am happy that your surgery went well and you are feeling better all the time.

    I can't say I am looking forward to the surgery, but I am grateful that it should sort everything out.

    I am feeling much calmer now that I know what is going to happen.

    I hope you continue to do well and get stronger as time goes on.

    take care

    xx