Chemo? Yes or No?

Hello, Recently been diagnosed with Stage 4 Malignant Melonoma. Had first dose of Chemo almost 3 weeks ago now and am due another course this Wed coming. Has anyone else had really bad side effects from Chemo enough to question if it is worth it? And if you did carry on did the treatment present less side effects with time? Thankyou 

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  • Hello,

    Just completed 3 rounds of chemo for Primary peritoneal cancer. Like you, I had no idea what chemo would be lik/ how it would affect my body.

    For me, I think the first round was the worst as the effects came and went,every day there was something new and I didn't know what to expect or how to cope..

    I had a skin rash/ vaginal candida, felt completly worn out on some days, had awful long leg bone pain, which really was the worst symptom. lasting 4 days,felt as if i could not put one leg in front of the other. Nausea, luckily no vomitting. I treated the first round of chemo as the experiment round.

    I contacted my oncology nurse and we talked about the symptoms and how I could improve them.

    The second and third rounds produced similar symptoms, but I was much more aware of how i could control them to make it more of a positive experience and less stressful.  You must carry on.

    My message to you is to go forth with the chemo - I have had a tremendous response to it and am now booked for major surgery next week to remove the cancer (the size of a large grapefruit) and it has shrunk rapidly.

    I have already been advised that I will have 3 further rounds of chemo once I am post surgery..Iv'e got my supplies in for that.

    I realised very early on, that dealing/ coping with cancer treatments is half symptoms/ half positive attitude and determination to get through it. It's a HUGE shock when you are told a diagnosis of cancer-hits you like a bulldoser delivering a blow to the gut.  Treaing my cancer like an enemy - I'm at war with it....

    Be determined and carry-on OWL58 - wishing you all the best.

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  • Hello,

    Just completed 3 rounds of chemo for Primary peritoneal cancer. Like you, I had no idea what chemo would be lik/ how it would affect my body.

    For me, I think the first round was the worst as the effects came and went,every day there was something new and I didn't know what to expect or how to cope..

    I had a skin rash/ vaginal candida, felt completly worn out on some days, had awful long leg bone pain, which really was the worst symptom. lasting 4 days,felt as if i could not put one leg in front of the other. Nausea, luckily no vomitting. I treated the first round of chemo as the experiment round.

    I contacted my oncology nurse and we talked about the symptoms and how I could improve them.

    The second and third rounds produced similar symptoms, but I was much more aware of how i could control them to make it more of a positive experience and less stressful.  You must carry on.

    My message to you is to go forth with the chemo - I have had a tremendous response to it and am now booked for major surgery next week to remove the cancer (the size of a large grapefruit) and it has shrunk rapidly.

    I have already been advised that I will have 3 further rounds of chemo once I am post surgery..Iv'e got my supplies in for that.

    I realised very early on, that dealing/ coping with cancer treatments is half symptoms/ half positive attitude and determination to get through it. It's a HUGE shock when you are told a diagnosis of cancer-hits you like a bulldoser delivering a blow to the gut.  Treaing my cancer like an enemy - I'm at war with it....

    Be determined and carry-on OWL58 - wishing you all the best.

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