An update - dad diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer

My dad had his results today. The prostate cancer has spread to his spine, bone's. They have given him some pills and( injections to give to Dr) They said to try and slow the spread. Pain killers,if he needs them. The cancer is all down his spine and in the bone's. There is nothing they can do. I am utterly heartbroken.  To top it off,my mum either had a mini heart attack, or fainted ,after leaving the Urologist,while dad was getting his meds and has broken 9 rib's,has a haematoma on the back of her head,but not inside thank God,she has a few braises. So she's in the hospital now, don't know for how long,they got to monitor her to see if it was a faint or mini heart attack Unbelievable. how  all this  has happened in one day   my poor mum and dad

  • Hello Lyndz

    I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad's news and that on top of that your Mum is now in hospital. I hope the team can give her some reassuring news about the cause of her collapse and that hopefully she'll be well enough to come home soon. 

    It's natural to feel as you've described after the news that a loved one has cancer. It will be a real rollercoaster of emotions over the coming days and weeks as you all adjust to this news and your Dad commences his treatment. 

    I know that our lovely [@Billygoatt]‍ replied to another of your posts here and you might find it helpful to read his story. 

    If you want to chat things through with our team of nurses at any point you're most welcome to give them a call. I'm sure they will be happy to try and answer any questions you may have and offer some advice and support. They're available Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Keep in touch Lyndz. Let us know how you're all doing. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

  • Thank you.latest test shows that my Mum had a Mini heart attack. She went home on Thursday night, thought might have been too soon?  So proud of them .