My partner has cancer

The love of my life has been referred to haematology after the biopsy showed cancerous cells.

I have finally met the man of my dreams after so many years and now I feel like my world is crashing. I don't know what to do. I have no one to talk to.

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  • My wife has just been diagnosed with lung cancer & brain metastases. Without treatment she was told her life expectancy would be as low as a couple of months & with treatment 1-2yrs. She is the love of my life & I can't imagine life without her. You are not alone. 

  • Hi Grumpydave,

    You have my sympathy, it isn't easy to face the future without the most important person in it, hopefully she will respond well to treatment and you will get quality time, time to appreciate the small things, my partners been given a year with chemo if it works, he's really unwell, no energy and in pain, the sun is shining today and normally we would go for a walk so i got out of bed cursing and crying that those days are over, i wont know what to do when the sun is shining anymore, he loves the sun. I hope you find strength to get through the hours, and enjoy the moments when your brain switches off from it all, you need those. I guess that's living in the moment. Julia is right about the suffering in Ukraine, all forced on people needlessly, the world can be beautiful but it can be so ugly too. Get through the hours.

     

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  • Hi Grumpydave,

    You have my sympathy, it isn't easy to face the future without the most important person in it, hopefully she will respond well to treatment and you will get quality time, time to appreciate the small things, my partners been given a year with chemo if it works, he's really unwell, no energy and in pain, the sun is shining today and normally we would go for a walk so i got out of bed cursing and crying that those days are over, i wont know what to do when the sun is shining anymore, he loves the sun. I hope you find strength to get through the hours, and enjoy the moments when your brain switches off from it all, you need those. I guess that's living in the moment. Julia is right about the suffering in Ukraine, all forced on people needlessly, the world can be beautiful but it can be so ugly too. Get through the hours.

     

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