Mum feeling shivery, lost weight and cant sleep after op!

Hello everyone, hope you are all well. Not sure if you remember, but my dearest mum was diagnosed with bowel cancer in november and had her operation 2 weeks ago but came out last Tuesday. She is doing ok bless her at 74 and both my dad and I were terribly worried but she has, I guess like anyone, good days and bad days per say.

She was 8 stone 11 when she went into hospital, didnt eat in hospital for 4 days and when she did start it was really next to nothing but has been on a good diet, strict to what she has been told to eat for a week now since she has been out which is great.

However the issue she has is, she has lost 7 pounds, in weight and shivery, fatiqued and also not sleeping but getting up around 5 - 7 times a night to go to the loo, ie bladder, we have told her maybe drink water earlier in the day/coffee etc. Are these normal symptons to get? - and will they just pass when she gets stronger? She is just waiting on a call from the nurses tomorrow. Thank you kindly...as always :)

  • Hi Joanna

    My mum is 79 and had an operation last year to remove a growth in her bowel. She was up in the night and couldn't sleep very well. She too lost a lot of weight. However, at one point she started to throw up and was taken back into hospital for a few days. This happened a couple of times and finally they did a bit more surgery and since then she has been better. It has been a year now and she still has good days and bad days ( all cancer was removed so didn't need further treatment) it did take a lot out of her and she is a lot more tired than before this started but is plodding on. I think if you are concerned ring 111 and see what they say as always better to check. I hope this helps somehow. Anyway take care I know what a worrying time it is 

    Katherine 

  • [@rine53]‍ thank you very much for your message, its reassuring. It does seem odd that she is eating and hungry but the weight is dropping off daily. She is not feeling sick but if she does, we will look into further, its my dad looking after her so its really hard for him to know what to do at 79 too even though he is sharp etc. I think I will call 111 myself and just get some added reassurance, thank you its helped me immensely and truly hope your mum is ok and on the mend, she is doing well by the sounds of things at 79. x

  • Hi

    No problem, just spoke to my mum and she's on a good day. Hope you got the reassurance and she's doing a little better.

    xx