Specifically parotid gland cancer.
There was an 80% chance it was a benign tumor but of course, that wasn't to be and she was diagnosed on the 16th.
I live with her so it's very hard. She's in shock and can't really talk about it much. She hardly sleeps and likes to go out on walks. I was terrified about her and about finances and everything but I feel I need to keep a lid on all that. I feel like me panicking helps no one.
Now she's concerned about the fact it's Christmas and with the new covid strain she worries about getting effective treatment. She also worries about getting the news they won't treat her: either because she's old (69), or on blood thinners, or because they tell her the cancer is too advanced.
She wants me to research second opinions and private care because she fears they'll tell her they won't do anything.
Literally, all I can find is that you talk to your NHS cancer doctor and ask him to refer you somewhere. God knows about the money but I guess they'll give you an estimation or something.
Best wishes
David
