This feels like a very strange conversation to start but have exhausted all other professional routes. So, I have had a unilateral mastectomy and need reconstruction however, I won't be getting a reconstruction on the NHS as they have told me it could be years away! The only reconstruction I can afford privately is implant, the issue is what would one implant and one natural breast be like? I'm not sure how I feel about this as I'm assuming the implant side will only look similar with bra on. I would prefer both sides to be implant so they are a bit more balanced. The private surgeons who I have spoken with are reluctant to do this as it means going up in size. I am only a 34B if that and so it's not like I would be super large. I didn't have radiation thankfully so my skin will hopefully stretch. I have no one to talk to about unilateral implant reconstruction and the internet is full of bilateral implant reconstruction so this isn't very informative. I also feel like I am making a fuss when things could be so much worse, so apologises if this post seems frivolous.  Any advice or shared experience would be much appreciated.