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Imissmerethe
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 So my wife left me on 2nd December after the GP said she was fit for travel to the hospital for pain control, when I got the to the hospital I was informed that she passed away on route. 
 

I can't understand why this happened? Why people are forcing me to eat. I don't have the energy for anything, I just want my wife, I just want to hold her and tell her I love her one more time. 

I want my wife home.
 

The hospital won't let me see her because of the COVID cr*p but I don't care if I get it at least I can be with my wife again. I got nothing without her. 

 

How do I tell the  family that I want a DNR so I can be with my wife sooner should anything happen to me hopefully sooner rather than later.

Rip MSB I LOVE YOU AND WILL BE WITH YOU SOON.

  • I'm so sorry for your loss Imissmerethe.

    I can't begin to imagine how difficult this must be for you at the moment but our community are here for you and I'm sure some of them will be along soon to offer their support and advice.

    Coping with grief is very tough, so if you can try to take things a day at a time and be kind to yourself. Do let your family know how you're feeling as I'm sure they will want to do all they can to help you at this time.

    Sending strength and support your way Imissmerethe.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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