Hi Nic75

I‘m just reading your message. My ex of 9 years cheated on me. I ended it New Year’s Day 2024, no going back for me. He immediately got in a relationship with the girl he cheated on me with and within a few months he’s got her pregnant. Claims it was talked about and planned but I suspect she’s done it because she’s jealous of our daughter and wants him to put her and her baby before our daughter, not that he does put our daughter first. I’m raising our daughter with the help of his parents who have been great. He’s still financially tied to me what with the house that is now on the market but no real interest. He doesn’t even live with his new girlfriend. 

I was diagnosed with breast cancer when my little girl was only four months old, had a mastectomy when she was six months old. Eight months after that he starts cheating on me. We’ve been split up now almost 7 months and I can tell you the mental and emotional trauma is still there. I’m referring myself for a second lot of counselling because I’m just about coping.

I just wondered how after 4 years you are doing now? Do you feel better and have you recovered from the trauma of the cancer and your husbands infidelity.

All the best