Hi,

I have not started a thread before so here goes!

As a cancer patient, and a few set backs, Thankyou cellulitis again and again, please now leave the room lol!!! Tell me everyone what are the words you want to hear from family and friends during your journey. Like a list of “no no’s” and the list of “that felt nice”. I give my example today, lovely work colleague just rang me “hi hear you’ve had rough time” (so far so good) “ you are amazing” (pushing it a bit now) then the sucker punch, “I lost my mum and best friend from what you had, they were brave and amazing too” (that’s it red card and sent off pitch, delete off phone). I’d like to hand friends my list of “good to say” like “morning how you feeling, here for a chat or a coffee catch up”

so what would you put on your list, I have many more that floored me and more that lifted me. Eg my fab friend who delivered me nipple tassels after my mastectomy stating she’d be ready to hit the town with me when i’m feeling up to it!!!!! I had a boob removed, not my sense of humour. She’s been great.

cheers everyone

Cagsie