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Hi,Nov 2016 I was diagnosed with cervical cancer,began treatments mid dec till feb 2017,I’m still having appts with oncologist and gynaecologist.Judt recently I have been feeling overwhelmed and exhausted,I have other things going on too.I feel like I need try get some “normality” back but have no clue how or where to begin.any advice please? I have been reading online and wondering now if I have ptsd or I’m just scared and stuck :( 

  • Hi memags and welcome to the forum although I'm sorry to read you've been feeling overwhelmed and exhausted lately.

    I think the best thing to do would be to see your GP and let them know how you feel and discuss your concerns about ptsd. Reading things online can be scary, especially if they're not from an official source whereas if you go to your doctor they will be able to help and if needs be, point you in the right direction for support so do book in to see them when you can.

    Quite a lot of our members who have finished their treatment but still having follow up appointments will understand what you're going through at the moment and hopefully some of them will be along soon to offer their support and advice. I also wanted to put you in touch with [@LauraP]‍ as she has also been on the cervical cancer journey and it may help to talk to her about what you're going through at the moment.

    Kind regards, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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    Hi Memags,

    Yes, I do believe we have PTSD after going through this kind of trauma.  I think it is particularly hard for us because of the kind of invasive treatment cervical cancer can involve. Even though I know the treatment was lifesaving, I felt violated in a way.  I started seeing a psychologist towards the end of my internal radiation sessions, at the suggestion of the oncology nurse. He helped me immensely and I contiinue to see him, although not as often now.  My best advice to you is to try to look outward as much as you can, rather than focus inward, if you know what I mean. That helped me move forward, feel normal, and enjoy life again. You'll have ups and downs, but you'll get there.

    I will be 6 years post treatement this November and I am back to yearly check ups. Please feel free to message me if I can be of any help.  

    Laura x

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