To everyone 

i am sorry that I did not keep up posting my journey as it happened - had to knuckle down and fight 

selfish I know but needed to make sure I was still here for my brave and wonderful wife and kids

after 9 months - chemo - two ops I am returning to work in a couple of weeks

will fill you in with detail if anybody would like to know 

iff not and you are fighting or are close to someone who is fighting stay as positive as you can - do what the professionals tell you - and remember that the people that love you are full of worry

good luck xx