Nearly 6 years on......

In Dec. 2010 I fell over into a garden and broke a rib, when I was falling I tried to turn to the right so I wouldn't fall flat on my face into the bushes.  I broke a rib on my right side and discovered a .... pulled muscle ... under my arm.  About a week later I went to the doctor about my broken rib which was very painful and I asked him about my pulled muscle !!  He didn't care about the rib, but told me straight away that I didn't have a ..... pulled muscle.  He didn't say exactly what I had but insisted I get all the tests done that day.  Well sure enough, it was BC.  I got the official diagnosis on Dec 23rd..... Happy Christmas... NOT !!!  I had a right mastectomy on Jan.31st, 2011.  Three oncologists tried to insist I have chemotherapy but I refused, though on professor said.....don't come back to see me in 2 years and expect me to cure you, because I won't be able to....she was a *** !!  I simply said to her....don't worry doctor, I won't come back and see you !!  Well I didn't have chemo and I'm fine as far as I know, yet having had cancer still bothers me, even after all this time, not all the time, but sometimes.  I try to forget it ever happened, but of course that's impossible because I only have one breast. I so wish it had only been a pulled muscle.  :)  If it ever comes back I still wouldn't have chemo or any other treatment because I want quality of life rather than quantity.  Since my mastectomy I've travelled to various parts of Australia, I've been to New Zealand, Singapore and in July I went on a tour of Ireland by myself.  I don't think you ever totally recover from cancer mentally, but I know I'm very blessed to still be here, I don't know why I am, but I'm grateful.  Sometimes when I hear about a woman getting BC I think, oh how sad, then I suddenly remember I've had it too..

Thanks for listening to my little story.

2010

  • Hi 2010, 

    I'm so glad your decision to have a mascetomy has worked out for you and six years on you are enjoying life and have travelled to various parts of the world. I'm sure other members who have breast cancer will be inspired by your story and will reassure them that there is life after cancer.

    Feel free to explore the forum and chat to others who may be in a similar position. I'm sure they would love to hear your story and get to know more about you.

    All the best, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator