Cervical cancer in my 20's but 6 yrs cancer free!

I was diagnosed with cervical cancer at 29 yrs old just 4 months after having my twin boys and also mum to a 12 yr old boy. Panic set in I convinced myself I was going to die and leave my kids behind. Luckily for me I have amazing family and friends. My partner and dad attended every appt with me so between the 3 of us we retained all the info that was given to us. Apart from my initial negative (also normal) reaction I decided positive thinking was the only way to get through this ordeal. This was also confirmed by my "cancer" nurse who said positive ppl tended to have more positive outcomes in terms of their recovery. Over the next couple of weeks I met the surgeon who would carry out my hysterectomy various nurses I had an mri scan and a cone biopsy had confirmed I had stage 1b cancer. In a lot of respects I felt lucky as this was an early stage, curable cancer. Within 6 wks of diagnosis id had a radical hysterectomy and removal of lymph nodes, which were found to be cancer free after being tested. My recovery went well physically I gained strength quickly. However 6 months post op I got quite anxious the cancer would return. I was referred for counselling and diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder. Yet again the nhs professionals were amazing the counselling taught me coping mechanisms and I have now been cancer free for nearly 6 yrs. I can't thank the surgeon and nurses at Notts city enough they were amazing as has the staff at my local hospital who have carried out my check ups. This experience taught me live life in the moment do what makes you happy and treasure those you love and most importantly think positively as best as you can as it really does help. Good luck to everyone xxx

  • Hi Sadeebooboo

    Thank you for sharing your story with us.

    It's great to hear everything has turned out well for you.

    I'm sure your positive words will help others in a similar position.

    All the best for the future to you and your family!

    Best wishes

    Jane

  • hi sadeebooboo ive only joined this forum today, so pleased that you have gone 6 years now and things turned out well for you . i was diagnosed with cervical cancer nearly a year ago, i had my hysterectomy the end of march 2015 and things went really well, however like you after about 6 months i too started to feel stressed and anxious , i had my 6 month check and that was fine but even now nearly 10 months on i feel like i get stressed easily and anxious and short tempered which i wasnt before, do u have any tips on how to deal with this? or how long this feeling lasts? thanks x

  • Hello Laura,

    Welcome to our forum. It made me remember there's another Laura, LauraP, who posted recently to say she would be happy to talk to others who have been diagnosed with cervical cancer. She was diagnosed with cervical cancer three years ago and is doing very well and offered to support others who are currently going through what she went through herself. You can read her thread here and from a Laura to another I am sure you will have a lot in common and a lot to talk about. I will also make her aware of your post.

    Best wishes,

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hi Laura - I just got the message that we not only share first name but also a cancer diagnosis. I am  beginning my fourth year after treatment for stage 2A cervical cancer.  I was not able to have surgery due to severe blood loss soon after my diagnosis. I had 4 rounds of chemo, 26 rounds of external radiation and 6 rounds of internal radiation. I understand your anxiety and I think that anyone has gone through what we have will always the fear of recurrence. I wholeheartedly agree with Sadeebooboo, we do have PTSD. The good news is that the fear, at least for me, is subsiding as the milestones pass by.  Positive thinking is key.  It can be hard.  But, you have to think that way. What I do is think that if the current examination is good that most like the next one will be too. And even if something shows up, it is only six months old and most likely could be treated.  My radiation nurse (she is an Angel), suggested I see someone to help me with my anxiety.  I did and it was the best thing I could of done. It helped my understand that it was normal to feel the way I was after what I had been through. When I feel my fear and anxiety is getting  out of control I bring it up with my psychologist and he talks me through it.  I saw him every two weeks for the first two years; went to once a month the third year and now I am going quarterly.  I hope this will help you and I look forward to hearing from you.  God Bless you.