I found this forum and felt that I might be able to make some positive contributions. My cancer experience was with my wife as she and I battled breast cancer for five years. Unfortunately we lost the battle but she was a model to all those who knew her as she walked this path.

I have a lot of things to share and will as I see specifc things being asked on the forums.

One thing I will say: When I was visiting with the manager at the mortuary where my wife's body had been taken he remarked: you seem to be in a good mood and have your emotions under control. I said that my wife and I had discussed the enevitability of her death. We had made our peace with each other. Nothing was left unsaid. Our love was the bond that guided us to the end. It made this part of cancer much more tolerable.He said how important that was. He then said when someone dies in an accident there is no time to make peace. Maybe that is also a message. Maybe we should always be at peace with our loved ones.

I am very familiar with Lobular Cancer and THE BUSINESS of CANCER.