Breast and bowel cancer

Hello

i was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2020, then with colon cancer 2 months later. Both primary cancers. Had mastectomy, colostomy, followed by chemo and radiotherapy.

I have made a good recovery physically , but emotionally I'm a wreck. I can't let my husband see me undressed and my confidence is zero.

I have a supportive husband and family, but can't seem to move on. I don't want to make a fuss or bother anyone and always say I'm fine.

Anyone else experienced this?

  • Hello Sebsgirl and welcome to the Cancer Chat community.

    I'm so sorry to hear you were diagnosed with 2 different cancers within the space of 2 months. I can't begin to imagine how difficult this must have been, and factor in all the treatment you've had, it's completely understandable that you're feeling emotionally drained from everything you've been through.

    I'm glad you've joined us Sebsgirl, as so many of our members will know what you're going through right now and I'm sure you will receive some support and advice from them soon.

    We also have a team of cancer nurses you can talk things through with on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. 

    I'm not sure if you have spoken to your GP about how you are feeling, but if not, do consider reaching out to them as they will do all they can to help and provide you with the right support to work through this. Some of our members have found counselling to be really useful for working through such issues as well.

    Be kind to yourself Sebsgirl and remember that you are not alone.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator