Despite all clear, still worried mum's cancer will come back

Hey, 

I don't know why I am posting this, probably just trying to seek reassurance from somewhere. 
My mum was diagnosed with breast cancer late in 2020, luckily it was caught relatively early, she underwent a double mastectomy and was given the all clear in March 2021 for which I am eternally grateful. 
since then, I have been blindsided by worry about her, the cancer returning or even being diagnosed with a different strain (I have heard ovarian cancer is common for those who have suffered from breast cancer). 
I suppose I was just wondering whether these feelings of panic are normal. I feel very guilty for feeling like these given I know we were 'lucky', but I also don't want my relationship with my mum to suffer because I am constantly worrying about her... 

I would love to hear from anyone who has been through similar. 

  • Hello tpson

    I'm sorry to hear about your Mum's diagnosis but it's great to hear that she is now doing so well. 

    What you've described in terms of your anxiety about your Mum's health is perfectly natural and I know many of our members here will understand what you're going through. 

    It can help to talk these things through with someone and I wonder if you might find it helpful to chat with one of our team of nurses. I'm sure they will be happy to try and offer any support and reassurance that they can. If you'd like to chat with them they're available Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator