Hello, my darling husband was diagnosed with high risk Multiple Myeloma two years ago and was immediately put into treatement prior to Stem Cell Transplant and then clinical trial.  I am so grateful that he is still here despite the dreadful side effects of his chemo which is extensive. 

The fact is that everything has fallen onto me in the last two years and we can't get any benefits other than his PIP as he's terminal.    I try to work but am finding it hard to pay credit card bills and feel like I'm sinking.....

Anyone been in this situation?   We also have a 17 year old hoping to start uni in September..... everyday feels like I'm going round in circles...