40 year old son diagnosised with Multiple myeloma

How to get help and answers for my son. Dr didn't give what stage of multiple myeloma my son has. Radiotherapy and chemotherapy and stem cell transplant. I am so scared to ask questions and yet need to know what the next few months are going to be for my son. My husband has prostrate cancer and can't cope with what is happening with our son. Where do I turn to please I'm so frightened won't be able to help my beautiful boy I'm a mess at present.

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  • Hi Silverlady,

    I have multiple myeloma, diagnosed in Oct 2016. I've had radiotherapy and chemo but am not having a transplant.

    After my first lot of chemo I achieved a complete response and had a 21-24 month remission. Then followed a further 8 months of chemo, when I again achieved a complete response, so I'm now in remission again.

    While not curable, myeloma is certainly treatable and people are living longer with the disease.

    My quality of life would be considered poor by other people but for me, it's more than adequate. Some people though, continue to lead a very active life.

    It's not possible to tell you how things will go with your son as each person's myeloma is individual to them. Please though, ask me any questions you want and I'll answer to the best of my ability.

    Another good site to look at is myelomabeacon. It's an American based site but very informative.

    About my only advice would be to live in and be sufficient to the moment. Just deal with the 'now'.

     

    That's about it for now, please don't hesitate to ask me anything.

    Best Regards

    Taff

     

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  • Hi Silverlady,

    I have multiple myeloma, diagnosed in Oct 2016. I've had radiotherapy and chemo but am not having a transplant.

    After my first lot of chemo I achieved a complete response and had a 21-24 month remission. Then followed a further 8 months of chemo, when I again achieved a complete response, so I'm now in remission again.

    While not curable, myeloma is certainly treatable and people are living longer with the disease.

    My quality of life would be considered poor by other people but for me, it's more than adequate. Some people though, continue to lead a very active life.

    It's not possible to tell you how things will go with your son as each person's myeloma is individual to them. Please though, ask me any questions you want and I'll answer to the best of my ability.

    Another good site to look at is myelomabeacon. It's an American based site but very informative.

    About my only advice would be to live in and be sufficient to the moment. Just deal with the 'now'.

     

    That's about it for now, please don't hesitate to ask me anything.

    Best Regards

    Taff

     

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