My best friend - the most amazing human i know has had double mastectomy and reconstruction for BRAC2 gene breast cancer. When i found out i was so devestated and cried so much but she is the strongest most positive person we weren't allowed to be negative though we all cried and broke our hearts! 18 months init has become common place til tonight when months after surgery weeks after med review she is there throwing up continually. Normal she says for her... For me its not fair! I live away so catching her as a one off and it hit me there is so much more to this than she EVER let on and nothing i can do to help other than clean the bathroom. I had no idea! She puts on such a strong front - entertaininge and kids when all the time she feels so rough! I want to help what else can i do!?