Calling in sick

Hi everyone,

This is my first post so please bare with me :)

So earlier this year, my beautiful Mum was diagnosed with Stage 4 Glioblastoma. She's had surgery and chemo/radio, and we are awaiting the results (today) of whether or not this has done anything, and if the tumour is growing back.

Obviously I'm so worried and anxious, so I called in sick this morning. It's a really new job and I want them to think I'm taking it seriously, but I'm just so stressed out and it's all got on top of me. Should I feel guilty for calling in? I'm naturally a huge worrier and I'm so scared that they're going to be ****** off that I've called in, but I just can't focus on anything today. 

Sorry- this might seem like such a pointless question, maybe I'm just trying to keep my mind occupied! Xx

  • Hello rachWBA, 

    Really sorry to hear about your mum's diagnosis. Did you get the results? I really hope the treatment has worked well for her. 

    Don't feel guilty about calling in sick even if it is a new job. You obviously needed it that day as it all got a bit much for you. Hopefully it will have helped you recharge your batteries and you feel better now. If you feel that this worry and anxiety is happening repeatedly and you are struggling to focus, it might be worth seeing your GP and asking whether they have any tips to help you deal with this emotionally difficult time at the moment so that it doesn't affect your work and your daily life. 

    I hope you feel much better soon and that you are enjoying the new job. 

    Very best wishes to you and your mum, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator