Im the youngeat of 4 me n my big sis never got on but kids always got xmas birthdays and when i sawthem but now she has bowl cancer thays spread into her liver and im.gutted wen we grew up we got cloas as we could but i know she has no insurance si im askin socia to help her 2 ex men giving 500 each waw and they think her 5 kids should find the rest i i stepping on her toes my paying the amount that they cant afford i spoke to my brither her going to do her buffet my girlfriend of 28 yr the first drink are wee doing ok is there anything else we cN claim for the kids as they need a new washing machine cooker n fridge fdreezer imm clutching at straws here