When I was dx in 2013 all I could think about was my young son.  Although i hae remained friends with his father and indeed lied ion a house he owned in lieu of maintenance.  it was a situation that worked well while I was bringing up my other children aswell.  I infored tax credits back in 2004 that Im lived in the house.

Anyway back in 2013  I was dx with lung cancer which ment having a VATS procedure. From that moment on my mindset changed, I had panick attacks got depressed and worried immensley about my young son who at the time was 10.  I spoke to his father and it was agreed that he would move into his house .  We do not have any sexual relationship, we sleep in seperatwe roomt s, different friends, different interestes etc.  Now tax credits want me to say we are a couple when we are not, he is purely here for stability not for me but for our son. Things are hard enough with waiting for a 2nd dx on my other lung, Im scared, Im frightened and getting in a real mess as finding it so hard to focus.  I forgot to mention all bills are all in my name apart from mortgage which he pays as per our agreement.  Any advice would be great.  Thank you