Financial help after cancer

When I was first diagnosed I never really appeared upset or stressed. I took everything very calmly - it was throughout Covid and I had to be alone for it all. Fast forward a year after - I’ve been stuck in a pit of depression - I’ve tried counselling twice however one deemed me unsuitable and the other.. well let’s just say I helped her more than she helped me she needed advise on her mums dementia. Back to the point - I feel my self really struggling with money now - I don’t have the energy any more to keep up with my job, over time or even a second job. Simply because I can’t bring my self to get from bed- not because I’m lazy but because I’m sad. I literally feel heavy at all times I feel weighted, u feel like that any minute someone’s going to tell me it’s back again. It was skin cancer by the way. I’m just wondering if anyone knows of anyone that can help financially  get me back to normal 

  • Welcome to the forum JME97 although I'm so sorry to hear how difficult things have been for you since you were first diagnosed with cancer. 

    In regards to financial help, I would advise getting in touch with Macmillan as they have financial advisers you can speak to that will be able to help you with your situation and let you know what financial support you are entitled to. 

    I know you've encountered some difficulties with counselling, but please don't give up. If you haven't done so already, it may be worth speaking to your GP about your depression to see what help they can offer and resources they can signpost to you, including other local services in your area that you might not be aware of.

    I know the road ahead is a difficult one, but take things slow and be kind to yourself. It may not seem like it right now, be you will find a way through.

    We're thinking of you JME97 and sending all our strength and support your way.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Thanks so much for taking the Time to reply! I did contact macmillan - they just asked me multiple questions regarding my situation then said to reach out for more counselling - hopefully get some help soon! 

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    Have you considered antidepressants? My partner has melanoma and he takes them. It's softened the edges for him and made him more able even though he has a stage 4 diagnosis and isn't going to be cured. Counselling isn't always easy to handle and isn't always well delivered but if you could tolerate some medical help it can make quite a difference.