Hello Ange

I'm sorry to hear about the situation that your Mum and Dad find themselves in. 

I'd certainly recommend that you, or your parents, contact the Macmillian benefits advice line. I know they are experts in that field and will be able to give you some advice and support.

If your Dad has a clinical nurse specialist or any other nursing support such as district nursing or hospice nursing then you can also speak to them as they may be able to assist with completing the necessary paperwork. They will also be able to let you know what practical support your parents can access to help with things at home. Alternatively do speak to your Dad's GP surgery to talk things through with them. 

I'm sure that some of our members who have been in similar circumstances will post to share their experiences with you but I just wanted to give you that link as a starting point. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator