Hello Kazziekaz, 

Welcome to Cancer Chat! I am so sorry to hear about your husband and that he is looking lost at the moment and has had to stop chemotherapy. You are definitely not useless even though it is normal that you are feeling so powerless at the moment but your husband I am sure appreciates having you by his side during this difficult time and you seem to be great support for him. 

If you wanted to have a chat about all this to one of our cancer nurses, feel free to give them a call on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their line is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm. 

I hope that you will also meet other members of the forum who have been in a similar situation and looked after a loved one with cancer. It does help to talk to others who sadly find themselves in the same boat or have been in a similar position in the past. Keep strong, we are all there for you if you need to talk!

Best wishes, 

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator