yes cancer IS a bombshell. It takes so much energy just to accept it really IS being said to you. I was diagnosed with the same situation as you in October 2019. I suddenly felt very alone and as if death was imminent. It wasn’t and isn’t.
I had the tumour removed and a breast reduction as opposed to a mastectomy. The hospital I attend offered that although I understand that’s not a normal thing to happen in many areas? Whilst under anaesthetic they did a test on one of my lymph nodes and very fortunately for me there was no sign of cancer so I kept the majority of my lymph nodes.
Surgery went very well and my recovery was easy enough. I was out walking within 3 days. I felt fully recovered within 8 weeks.
I then had an ‘Onco test’ to see if chemo would be beneficial or not. Breast tissue is sent to the USA for analysis. Test result came back as a 9 so it wouldn’t have helped, so I very fortunately didn’t have chemo. No idea why I had an onco test They don’t always do it but quite a few people on this site have had it I notice
I had 15 sessions of radiotherapy which was for me fine No ill affects at all but I think that was just luck. Tiredness hits most people it seems.
Now just building up my fitness levels as the oncologist stated exercise is a protective factor in inhibiting cancer growth. That was a good motivator for me!!
I am a complete wuss regarding the hormone tablets!! Not sure what to do and I am dithering and so far doing nothing! Most just get on and take them which I am pretty sure is right but I don’t feel they are for me.
So thats my story Polly. It’s been a struggle at times. I leant on friends and my husband when I needed to. The cancer clinic staff are fabulous. They absolutely DID ‘get it’ That feeling inside us that is sometimes desperate, sometimes just sad and occasionally manic. It’s all ok and no one judges.
Hold on. This is a very tough time emotionally for everyone let alone to be newly diagnosed with this crap. It will be tougher for you because of medical interruptions but I understand that’s easing now.
Please feel free to contact me or just frequent this site it’s such a good support. People know what you are saying. Will identify with it. Nothing you feel is crazy or not allowed. Cancer IS a life changer but you are in good company here.
I wish you all the luck in the world as you travel onwards (and upwards) Go steady
Oh kebbs you lovely lovely lady xx how weird to get such love from a stranger it's like you just understand well obviously you do but it's hard to explain how that made me feel but before I start let me just tell you about the hormone tablets and why you must take them .. cancer feeds off of eastrogeon so when they test our cancer they can tell what type it is regarding what excites it . That's my knowledge on it from a cancer doctor my friend had many years ago .
As for me I'm weirdly cool not freeking out taking it step by step frustrated scans ECT taking so long but I do understand x thankyou so much for your message it has helped me learn more xxx I'm getting used to this technology lark as I hate this *** normally lol so I hope I don't lose your message some how lol xx love Kelly ( ppolly)
Oh kebbs you lovely lovely lady xx how weird to get such love from a stranger it's like you just understand well obviously you do but it's hard to explain how that made me feel but before I start let me just tell you about the hormone tablets and why you must take them .. cancer feeds off of eastrogeon so when they test our cancer they can tell what type it is regarding what excites it . That's my knowledge on it from a cancer doctor my friend had many years ago .
As for me I'm weirdly cool not freeking out taking it step by step frustrated scans ECT taking so long but I do understand x thankyou so much for your message it has helped me learn more xxx I'm getting used to this technology lark as I hate this *** normally lol so I hope I don't lose your message some how lol xx love Kelly ( ppolly)
Just want to add that you sound as if you are managing very well. It IS a tough call though so be extra kind to yourself and lean on others when you need the support.
If I think of one thing that used to distress me most (and still can at times, usually late at night!) is a feeling of isolation. Somehow cancer can make one feel totally alone....I find that quite disturbing but generally I am strong and ready to face whatever. We are SO lucky we live in a civilised country where skilled people are able to help us and restore us to health and/or extend our lives.
