Reconstruction or not?

I have had a right breast masectomy and finding it difficult looking at the scar. It's 8 weeks ago now but still lumpy and a lot of red skin, not a pretty sight. I don't let my partner see, although he is just glad that the cancer has been removed. I have chemo and radiotherapy to face yet and I will see how I feel after all the treatment. I am vain though and feel that cancer has disfigured me. I'm not young so it's not such a huge decision, it's more if I can face more surgery and how they will match to my other breast. 
How do other people feel? 
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  • I think many of our members who have been through this will really understand where you're coming from and hopefully some of them will be along soon to offer their thoughts and advice.

    I know you've still got chemo and radiotherapy to go but I just thought I'd share the information we have on our website about breast reconstruction in case you wanted to find out more.

    I hope this helps and that you're able to come to a decision soon.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator