Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

I discovered a small lump on the left hand side of my neck, just under my jaw, sort of gland area in May 2018. I assumed it was a swollen gland, but when it didn't go away after approx. 2 weeks, I went to my doctor. He wasn't overly concerned, but said it should be investigated if it was still there after 3 weeks, which it was. I went back to my doctor and he referred me to an ENT clinic. I underwent various tests, blood test, ultrasound, biopsy, CT scan and pet scan and all of the results were inconclusive, the doctors were adamant that the lump was harmless, however they would have to remove the lump. The operation was a success and a 4.5cm lump was removed, one week later I was told that it was cancer, a secondary cancer with an unknown origin. A second operation was required to find the origin, so my tonsils were removed, a small piece from the base of my tongue and all lymph nodes from the left hand side of my neck. This operation was much more complex, took around 4 hours and recovery was very difficult to say the least. Around a week later again I was told the cancer had originated in my left tonsil (HPV+) and found in a further 4 lymph nodes. No trace of cancer in my tongue thankfully and the lymph nodes with cancer were directly surrounding my tonsil and had not spread further down my neck. Around 40 lymph nodes were removed in total. I was told I would need 6 weeks of radiotherapy.  Which, quite frankly was the worst news ever, based on the possible/likely side effects, and not forgetting that horrible mask. I was to have a high dose of radiation to the left hand side of my neck and a lower dose to the right. I postponed my treatment until after christmas and at this very moment I finished my treatment just over 6 weeks ago. The treatment was difficult and I felt side effects almost immediately, my saliva thickened up and my taste changed very quickly. I managed to eat the whole way through and even now without too much pain, obviously with a lot of medication. I am on a fairly strict, bland diet so not to aggravate my throat and ulcers. I started getting ulcers towards the end of my treatment which are only just clearing up now, but over the past few days managed to get oral thrush too.  I get quite alot of pain in my jaw/gum that goes up to my ear, which is really painful at night, but have eventually found a pain killer to help that. The mucous towards the end of my treatment got pretty bad and is only just subsiding. My taste is quite good already and saliva slowly getting better. I am convinced that I have faired better than most throughout the treatment because of the lower dose of treatment to the right hand side of my neck. I had no internal side effects on that side whatsover, just slight burning on the exterior. The left hand side of my neck burned quite badly in the end, then scabbed, then peeled, over already fragile skin due to the previous operations, but it did heal quickly. I am of course still healing and still very much in recovery right now, but I'm hoping things will still get better. Looking forward to my first packet of crisps and sweeties and of course some alcohol........

I thought I would share my story in the hope that I can help someone else, or give other tonsil cancer patients hope and be able to give some friendly advice if needed.  I am 38 years young, diagnosed at 37 if that is of any interest.

Best wishes to you all x

  • Hi thanks good re weight I’ve stabilised now at just under 10 stone which is where my body  is happy ,my mouth is now 90% back to normal into could yawn for ages had to stifle it whenever I felt a yawn coming ,fingers x yours comes back. The treatment was brutal when you think about it we’ve been put through the wringer and come through the other side. Saliva wise I would say is 85% the acupuncture seems to be helping .

    i am one year and a week  out and getting ready for another trip to Spain!

    keep in touch Hazel. 

  • Thank you for sharing. It’s frightening isn’t it how the body can be struggling and we don’t even know until it’s examined under microscope or whatever they do! 

    I’m Day 4 post tonsillectomy now and it is up and down. Pain worse in morning and then again after being up a couple of hours. Once I rest and sleep again I get another burst in ability to get up and look after the house and kids where I can. My boys are 3 -and 4 and so driving their dad crazy lol. 

    Can I ask did you have any other symptoms at all of being unwell apart from the lump? 

    The consultant came to me after the op and was pleased and said he doesn’t think there’s a need to worry as it wasn’t much difference in size once they’d removed them. It was only slightly bigger at the bottom of the tonsil, but the area had started to feel firm and hard. I didn’t have any other scans or tests just straight tonsillectomy so do feel a bit relieved by what he said after but also am aware that there doesn’t have to be much change visually , if any at all by the sounds of it in your case. 

    I think to what you guys are going through and am so amazed how you get through so long with this pain and struggle to eat/yawn etc. My hat goes off to you. Day 4 feeling like day 100 to me

    Caroline x

  • That is reassuring! It's good to know that there is still hope, even after 7 months.  Yes the treatment is brutal, there is no other word for it, I honestly never thought I would recover as wel as I have so soon, the first few months after treatment were absolutely awful.

    Is acupuncture sore?

    Enjoy Spain x

  • Hi no pain at all you feel a tiny *** when needles go in but doesn’t last more than a second. Afterward me you either feel energised or tired so far I feel tired but I do feel as if I now have more saliva have just eaten a sandwich made with a granary type bread and only needed occasional spoons of soup to get it down. Progress. can’t eat the crust though!

    thank you eill fo 

    hazel x

     

  • Hi Caroline,

    It is extremely frightening, it is even more frightening that these fancy big machines/tests that are made to detect cancer, can't actually always detect it!  I guess nothing is 100%, but had mine been detected I might have been able to avoid the second operation.  It was obviously not meant to be

    Recovery is hard regardless, but I guess even harder with little kids, poor dad, haha.  My daughter is a bit older so slightly more self sufficient.  I remember the pain getting progressively worse, before getting better again, but I had a bigger operation I guess.  I hope you are still doing well.

    I had no other symptoms at all, just a growing lump.

    With any luck, you still have no reason to worry and I hope this is where your journey ends, I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you. 

    Take care and let me know how you get on x

  • Ouchy it's funny to think that frightens me, after all I've been through.  It sounds like it could be worth it, but I'll give it a bit more time and see how I get on.

    Wow, that sounds like a great improvement, getting through a crust might not be too far away!

    D x

  • Yep just shows how we are all different I find it relaxing .

    Crusts ummm a little way off yet but something to aim for !

    h x

  • Hi Caroline,

    Just wondering how you are getting on and hope that you are over the worst from your tonsilectomy.  Have you heard anything from the hospital?

    Diana x

  • Hi Diana, 

    I’m getting on ok now thank you. Day 13 today and a lot better although still not 100% yet. I’ve received a Letter for an appointment tomorrow for my results. Trying not to worry as it won’t do any good so just going to turn up and see what he says! 

    thank you for asking. I hope you are ok. 

    Caroline x

  • Hi again,

    It's a horrible operation, I struggled with the pain during recovery, but thankfully was only temporary.  Glad to hear you are doing ok, and hopefully even better still with another 2 days of recovery under your belt.  You would have had your appointment by now too, was it good news?

    I am doing really well at the moment, thank you x