Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

I discovered a small lump on the left hand side of my neck, just under my jaw, sort of gland area in May 2018. I assumed it was a swollen gland, but when it didn't go away after approx. 2 weeks, I went to my doctor. He wasn't overly concerned, but said it should be investigated if it was still there after 3 weeks, which it was. I went back to my doctor and he referred me to an ENT clinic. I underwent various tests, blood test, ultrasound, biopsy, CT scan and pet scan and all of the results were inconclusive, the doctors were adamant that the lump was harmless, however they would have to remove the lump. The operation was a success and a 4.5cm lump was removed, one week later I was told that it was cancer, a secondary cancer with an unknown origin. A second operation was required to find the origin, so my tonsils were removed, a small piece from the base of my tongue and all lymph nodes from the left hand side of my neck. This operation was much more complex, took around 4 hours and recovery was very difficult to say the least. Around a week later again I was told the cancer had originated in my left tonsil (HPV+) and found in a further 4 lymph nodes. No trace of cancer in my tongue thankfully and the lymph nodes with cancer were directly surrounding my tonsil and had not spread further down my neck. Around 40 lymph nodes were removed in total. I was told I would need 6 weeks of radiotherapy.  Which, quite frankly was the worst news ever, based on the possible/likely side effects, and not forgetting that horrible mask. I was to have a high dose of radiation to the left hand side of my neck and a lower dose to the right. I postponed my treatment until after christmas and at this very moment I finished my treatment just over 6 weeks ago. The treatment was difficult and I felt side effects almost immediately, my saliva thickened up and my taste changed very quickly. I managed to eat the whole way through and even now without too much pain, obviously with a lot of medication. I am on a fairly strict, bland diet so not to aggravate my throat and ulcers. I started getting ulcers towards the end of my treatment which are only just clearing up now, but over the past few days managed to get oral thrush too.  I get quite alot of pain in my jaw/gum that goes up to my ear, which is really painful at night, but have eventually found a pain killer to help that. The mucous towards the end of my treatment got pretty bad and is only just subsiding. My taste is quite good already and saliva slowly getting better. I am convinced that I have faired better than most throughout the treatment because of the lower dose of treatment to the right hand side of my neck. I had no internal side effects on that side whatsover, just slight burning on the exterior. The left hand side of my neck burned quite badly in the end, then scabbed, then peeled, over already fragile skin due to the previous operations, but it did heal quickly. I am of course still healing and still very much in recovery right now, but I'm hoping things will still get better. Looking forward to my first packet of crisps and sweeties and of course some alcohol........

I thought I would share my story in the hope that I can help someone else, or give other tonsil cancer patients hope and be able to give some friendly advice if needed.  I am 38 years young, diagnosed at 37 if that is of any interest.

Best wishes to you all x

  • Thanks for reply Hazel. Managing ok as long as I am dosed up with pain meds again. I thought I was through with all that!   Stupidly didnt realize that there would be times when I go back to how I felt right at beginning... Earache and throat soreness not subsiding without meds. Scan all clear though.

    Sharon

  • Hi there. Looks like a brief history of what ive been going through, so we all have suffered and recovered in different ways. I had petscan and mri, no cancer. They took my tonsils out to find cancer in the right tonsil. I also had to have 4 bottom teeth out as they were not good to be there cos of radioyherapy. I then had to have 34 sessions of radioyherapy every day. That finished on 2nd july. I have been in agony ever since. I was left with one bottom back tooth that was digging into my tongue on right hand side. I was given morphine painkillers. This tooth then decided to cut into my tongue and now i have s gash 5mm wide x 20mm long on side of tongue. Had to wait after radiotherapy calmed down and waiting on petscan results. Now i thought they would take the aggrivating tooth out. But no. After xray. They said its a good tooth, and one on the opposite side was loose and should come out. That side is perfectly fine and i can only just eat liquidised food. So they are going to stitch my tongue. But theres nothing to say the pertruding tooth is going to stop digging into my tongue after having the stitches. I hsvnt slept for more than an hour at anyone time day or night. Was told also that would be another 6 months to a year before this will all calm down. I can hardly manage another day.

  • Hi msclbearchsr

    I completed my treatment at the end of May 2019 . 
    I vividly remember the post treatment recovery period especially the first 3 months being tough , almost unbearable at times , the lack of sleep didn't help and the pain ..... BUT and it's hard to believe at the point you are now but improvements do happen , sometimes hardly noticeable but it does happen . Just hang in there and try and do everything the experts have told you to do . 
    you will get there . 

    All the best. 
    PeterS

  • This is reassuring, thank you.  I hope your recovery continued happily. 

    I've my own neck dissection and tonsil removal (plus it seems a little bonus of half my thyroid) on Monday followed by chemo / radio.  Quite nervous!

     

     

  • Hi it's only natural to be nervous. I am 3 years post radiotherapy for tonsil cancer with several affected lymph nodes if I can help just ask. 
    my blog is www.radioactiveraz.Wordpress.com

    it may help you

    Hazel 

  • Hi CS

    Wishing you all the best for Monday. 

    Not nice but no doubt in very good hands. 

    I had bilateral tonsillectomy and modified neck dissection for an HPV+ driven cancer of my tonsils and single lymph node secondary growth. Radiotherapy and some chemo too.  

    It was a rough ride for a good few months but now.. over two years later is just a memory. Horrible disease! Thank goodness for modern treatment and the wonderful people that work to help us get past these things. 

    Hope all goes well. 

    Paul. 

  • Hi Hazel, hope you don't mind me messaging but I am 14 months post tonsil cancer , had 6?weeks radiotherapy and was quite I'll... was sick all day every day mainly due to the excessive amount of mucus and was admitted to hospital for two weeks as struggled with eating..... My mouth and throat still don't feel right, there is a lot of stuff I can't eat and still have awful taste in my mouth. Still having check ups every month, not really gaining weight but I just get told it's normal to still be feeling like this..... just wondering if it was the same for you xx

  • Hi well,done on completing treatment. I didn't start putting eight in until around15 months after treatmen5 I maintained weight but didn't increase. Then once I started to put weight I all the sweet thjngs had to go. I a, now 4 years postbtreatment I can eat much more but spicy food and currys are no no. I can't tolerate most acidic things vinegar citrus etc. alcohol is the same. Bread took quite a while toast well buttered I found much easier. I used to have the same thjngs most days. Even now home made soups  and bread are my go to foods at lunch  time foods. I can eat most  meats chicken breast and pork still cause issues. It's a king road to recovery but I now onky have dry mouth at night I r which I still use xyimelts for have you tried those they are good. I found the 2 year mark changes were quite rapid. I'm still getting) g tiny Ines even now. My blog www.RadioactiveRaz.wordpress.com   Might help

    www.yumpu.com/.../cookbook-by-andrew-gaylor-head-and-neck-cancer-survivor-2022

     

    www.workingwithcancer.co.uk/.../After-the-treatment-finishes-then-what.pdf
     

    best wishes Hazel 

    this kink might help with foods.