Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

I discovered a small lump on the left hand side of my neck, just under my jaw, sort of gland area in May 2018. I assumed it was a swollen gland, but when it didn't go away after approx. 2 weeks, I went to my doctor. He wasn't overly concerned, but said it should be investigated if it was still there after 3 weeks, which it was. I went back to my doctor and he referred me to an ENT clinic. I underwent various tests, blood test, ultrasound, biopsy, CT scan and pet scan and all of the results were inconclusive, the doctors were adamant that the lump was harmless, however they would have to remove the lump. The operation was a success and a 4.5cm lump was removed, one week later I was told that it was cancer, a secondary cancer with an unknown origin. A second operation was required to find the origin, so my tonsils were removed, a small piece from the base of my tongue and all lymph nodes from the left hand side of my neck. This operation was much more complex, took around 4 hours and recovery was very difficult to say the least. Around a week later again I was told the cancer had originated in my left tonsil (HPV+) and found in a further 4 lymph nodes. No trace of cancer in my tongue thankfully and the lymph nodes with cancer were directly surrounding my tonsil and had not spread further down my neck. Around 40 lymph nodes were removed in total. I was told I would need 6 weeks of radiotherapy.  Which, quite frankly was the worst news ever, based on the possible/likely side effects, and not forgetting that horrible mask. I was to have a high dose of radiation to the left hand side of my neck and a lower dose to the right. I postponed my treatment until after christmas and at this very moment I finished my treatment just over 6 weeks ago. The treatment was difficult and I felt side effects almost immediately, my saliva thickened up and my taste changed very quickly. I managed to eat the whole way through and even now without too much pain, obviously with a lot of medication. I am on a fairly strict, bland diet so not to aggravate my throat and ulcers. I started getting ulcers towards the end of my treatment which are only just clearing up now, but over the past few days managed to get oral thrush too.  I get quite alot of pain in my jaw/gum that goes up to my ear, which is really painful at night, but have eventually found a pain killer to help that. The mucous towards the end of my treatment got pretty bad and is only just subsiding. My taste is quite good already and saliva slowly getting better. I am convinced that I have faired better than most throughout the treatment because of the lower dose of treatment to the right hand side of my neck. I had no internal side effects on that side whatsover, just slight burning on the exterior. The left hand side of my neck burned quite badly in the end, then scabbed, then peeled, over already fragile skin due to the previous operations, but it did heal quickly. I am of course still healing and still very much in recovery right now, but I'm hoping things will still get better. Looking forward to my first packet of crisps and sweeties and of course some alcohol........

I thought I would share my story in the hope that I can help someone else, or give other tonsil cancer patients hope and be able to give some friendly advice if needed.  I am 38 years young, diagnosed at 37 if that is of any interest.

Best wishes to you all x

  • Hi Julie 

    This is Hazel aka radioactiveraz I am niw 31 month post radiotherapy for tonsil cancer with several affected lymph nodes. I am living my life to the msc if I can help please get in touch. I have a blog with lots of tips and links it may help you. Www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com

    Hazel x

     

  • Aw thank you very much Sharon, and you too x

  • Congratulations on being well for nearly 3 years after treatment.

    Sharon

  • Hi Juliesss

    You are doing the right thing finding out as much information as possible , this forum is invaluable for advice . I completed treatment on June 28th 2019 and got the all clear on Oct 2nd 2019 . The great thing about the treatment is the huge success rate . I had what felt like a mini mountain range on the left side of the neck and by the end of the first week of radiation treatment the lump had reduced massively which was a boost . Early recovery was tough but now 21 months on I am back to normal , sometimes get a dry mouth which happens rarely now and the left side of my neck is sometimes a bit stiff and that's it , it is amazing how the body heals . You will be fine , key thing is to get calories down . 

    good luck with the process

    Peter 

     

  • thank you everyone for your replies.  Such an up and down time at the moment, fine one minute then down in the depths the next!  Will be good to get the scans out the way then can move forward - though I think that is probably what is scaring me most at the moment!

    Going to focus on the scans now and not worry about what's coming, nice and sunny out there so shall enjoy that!

    thanks again, it's great to know you are all here and will be looking at the blogs,

    julie x

  • Thank you Sharon. I like to keep in touch via forums just to let people know that life does continue. I am living life to the max today spent ours st daughter allot my digging eeeding planting. The treatment is hard but if I can do it anyone can 

    if I can help just ask 

    Hazel 

  • Hi Peter good  to hear you are doing well time flies. 
    onwards n upwards 

    Hazel 

  • Life certainly continues for us and for that I am so grateful. I have been really fortunate compared to others. I finished RT Dec 11th. Have got my taste back pretty much completely.and can eat and enjoy everything Have always kept my energy level. Am presently walking 10000 steps a day for Walk Over Cancer and have so far raised £900 . My way of giving a  bit back. Excitingly fir me I gave just been offered a great part in a local stage play. I thought long and hard about whether I had the energy and focus fir rehearsals and learning lines and whether my voice would hold out fir nightly performances  but I have decided YES!

    And life will soon feel normal again. My singing voice has been damaged by scar tissue and I hate my lip turn down but neither are life threatening are they? So glad you have been spending time in allotment with your grand daughter. Nature and family are so healing and uplifting.

    And well done Peter too. Its inspiring for  newly diagnosed to know there is "life" at the end of the tunnel. I was the newby back in September. Just sad that more have to go through it. One  day there will be a cure for all csncers.

    Good luck to Julie with the scans today 

    Sharon xx

  • Hi Hazel , good to read that you are doing well . 
    your advice was invaluable during my treatment and recovery . 
    This is such a good forum for anybody going through the process , lots of information tailored to our treatment . For me 21 months post treatment looking back it's a bit surreal ,almost like a dream . As my consultant stated when I was diagnosed "We can sort this " and he was right ! 
     

    all the best 

    Peter 

  • Hi Julie

    Just been thinking of you and wandering how you are feeling/coping?

    I don't find this website easy to find who I'm looking for so glad I could find you and hope you are feeling positive and hopeful.

    All the very best.

    Sharon