Message to Cimbo and anybody else who needs a shoulder.

Hi [@Cimbo]‍. I haven't fully figured out how to post to specific people yet but your link was suggested. Instead of going through everything that I've been through, if you would like to see  more have a look at my profile. Very briefly,  I also had Adenocarcinoma of the right upper lobe and had a Lobectomy last September,  had a scan a month ago and have to wait another 2 months for another one because they have seen opacity at the bottom of the right lung.

You have been going through a horrible time and I know how it can make you feel as though everything is unreal. Do you feel like that? I wanted to reach out and offer you some support if you would like it? How are you now? If you would like to have someone to rant to then please contact me. I have friend's who have cancer and it's good when we get together and talk about our worries but also have a good laugh. I think that only people who have or have had cancer can truly understand what we go through and if one more person tells me that I have to stay positive,  I will scream! One of the thread's on this site is about what people say to those of us with cancer and it made me laugh. 

Take care and I really hope that you are coping and if you need to get in contact then please do. I am thinking of you.

All the best,

Danni88

  • Hi Danni. .

    See if this helps ... just press reply in red oblong and you will get that thread back to the beginning. . If you press on Cimbo picture, you can go to her home page and you will see all the threads she has done .. press on the words to which ever one you want to reply too and it will be there for you to answer ...

    Hope that helps ... Chrissie x

  • I had Vats lower lobe in November - month later at check up - first time I had met with oncologist - he said we will give you 6 months chemo - just to clean up any bits left ( I already 2 growths on other lung)
    now I was still suffering from op - looking back it was bloody awful) and he carried on saying there is a 5% chance it wont come back
    5% !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I said no thanks - I will take my chances 
    As you say - only people with the disease truly knows what it is like