Weird breast lumps in other breast

This is an odd one. I finished herceptin last year & I've been meticulous with my Letrazole (it was two small stage 1b invasive ductal cancers, one double + & one also HER-2+).  I've put cream on my breasts every day and not felt any lumps.  I woke up 2 weeks ago with a large, very sore reddish bruise on the other breast.  It felt inflamed, but it was too sore to investigate far.  I left it a few days and the soreness went down but was still there, and there was a lumpy area under it.  I went to the GP, who felt the lump but we agreed to wait a week to see what happened. That night, it got really sore and even more red than before, with a lump 2 inches across.  The redness spread to the other breast for a few days.  It's gone down now, but there's still some slight redness and 2-3 distinct lumps left.  My energy levels are great, which they weren't before my first diagnosis and my dog isn't worried, which she was before.  My GP's referred me back to the hospital.  I'm obviously scared it's back, but very, very confused because it just doesn't seem to make sense that it's the same thing.  I had no symptoms last time apart from a recurrent dull bone-type pain. This was just sore & barely even that now. 

A question, I suppose: has anyone else had this presentation of breast cancer? What specific type of cancer?

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    Hi Banksy,

    Laser could certainly do this. I am so relieved for you. After all you've been through you deserve a break.

    I am so sorry to hear about your mum and, offer my sincere condolences to you and your family. Was this sudden, or had she been ill for a while? Either way, losing your mum is one of the biggest and saddest events you'll go through in your lifetime.

    I found that keeping a good photo of my own mum in a prominent place was helpful for me and I have often found myself talking to her via this over the years. No I don't usually go around talking to photographs, but I have found this a great solace throughout the past 21 years.

    Thinking of you and your family and wishing you the strength to get through all of these challeges.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Aw! Thanks Marlyn.  It was pretty sudden, but not unexpected and in one sense, not unwelcome.  She was early stage 7 dementia and 91.  She never wanted to live to be in the state she was.  I was with her, and she was more lucid at the end than she's been for a couple of years.  She told me she was dying and we were able to talk.  It seemed to be heart attack and she only had to put up with it for 3 hours before she died very happily. Sigh. Thank you xxxx

  • Thank you Jolamine, her death came with some great blessings for me.  She was in pain, but able to talk to me clearly, which was more than she'd been able to do for a long time.  I managed to hide my cancer from her when I had it a couple of years ago with the help of my hospital and her blindness and dementia.  It's been a difficult couple of weeks, but at least I can grieve now, and thanks to the NHS, I know I'm OK before we got to the funeral, which is on Monday.  THank you so much for caring xxx

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    Hi Banksy,

    What an awful strain you've been under. I have some idea of what you've been through. We nursed my 94 year old mother-in-law at home for 4 years. She too had vascular dementia. My 97 year old father-in-law did most of the caring for her, until we got a hospital bed delivered to the house and had carers attending her 4 times a day for the past 2 years. She died at the end of September last year.

    My father-in-law was broken hearted when she passed and his own health deteriorated rapidly. He was eventually admitted to hospital for assessment. That afternoon we were told that cancer was rife throughout his body. He died 6 days later on his first night in the hospice.

    At the same time as this was going on, my hubby was diagnosed with heart failure and I was diagnosed with melanoma on my face.and leg. I just had these biopsied last Monday, but have quite a wait for the results.

    I hope that all goes well with your mum's funeral on Monday. I shall be thinking of you all then.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • I'm sorry you're having a long wait for results.  That's such a hard part of things.  I really hope you get the results soon and hopefully you can get treatment underway.  Let me knnow.  

    They say there's no evidence that stress triggers cancer, but it's amazing how often you hear of it being diagnosed shortly after a nasty major life event or two.  Mine was a few short months after my Mum's dementia suddenly really took hold and she developed a paranoid psychosis, aimed at me.  She ended up in hospital having accidentally taken too many tablets (she'd started refusing all care - I'd been helping her with them before that). I got her into a home from there, which fortunately got her stable again & she settled well. I've long thought that the stress was what kicked mine off.

    I'll be thinking of you

    xxx

     

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    Stress certainly has some part to play. After what you've been through it's not surprising. You must have found it especially difficult when your mum aimed her paranoid psychosis at you. Having her hospitalised after taking too many tablets must have been worrying too. I am glad to hear that you eventually found her a home where she settled well.

    Do you have any relatives or friends who were able to support you throughout all this, or were you dealing with it all on your own?

    I shall be trying my level best to get my appointment brought forward.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • I've got a wonderful husband.  I'm lucky xx

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    Good. So have I and, it makes all the difference in the world. xx

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    Hi Banksy,

    Just an update on my hospital visit today. Got my stitches in my face out and mentioned to the nurse my long wait. She went out and reappeared with my consultant. He duly phoned his secretary. My results were back, so he was able to tell me there and then that both lesions were benign.

    He said that they were a complex presentation and he still wanted to discuss this with his MDT team, but he has discharged me - what a relief!

    I hope that you are managing a bit better now.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

     

  • Oh how wonderful Jolamine! That's great results for both of us.  I'm so pleased for you and after a lovely, but difficult day for me, it was wonderful to come back to your good news xxx