Having cancer is hard I know but I really do believe that it’s harder on those that care about you, that are close to you. How do I support them so they can cope with this? My attitude has always been ‘just do it’ ‘just get through it, then you’ll be ok’ but for the people I love, one in particular hasn’t coped at all. He never wanted to be at home because he couldn’t face it, he couldn’t deal with it. All I want to do is help him but I don’t know how, he says he doesn’t want to talk about it yet. All I’m doing at the moment is reminding him that I am here for him and I love him and I’ll always be by his side while he figures this out. He’s trying to sort his head out but what else can I do? To help him. I hate what this has done to him and feel like it’s all my fault. Any help guys?