Hi there Jane ... so so sorry you've had that diagnosis ... it's heartbraking, but something we all may face at some point ... and theres no words l can say to ease it for you ... all i would say is make every day count ... make memories that will stay with them forever ... share tears, hugs, and leave nothing unsaid .. 

Cancer wants us to just lay down, feel beaten and never get up again ... we loose so many with heart attacks, road accidents etc where there's no time to even have one more hug ... l know, l lost my mum suddenly and what l would have given for just one more day, or even one hour ... l live my life now making the most of every day ... look at things with new eyes, and grab every as a gift ...

So I'm sending you a big hug, from one cancer lady to another ... Chrissy