Thinking about using the cold cap?

Before my breast cancer chemo I was desparate to keep my hair. Having only average plain looks and a lumpy scalp I knew that being bald would really not suit me. I also did not want to see a cancer sufferer looking back at me every time I looked in the mirror.  So I tried the cold cap and for me it was very successful. I even had to have my hair cut and thinned out during chemo.  I reckon I lost less than 10% of my hair but then, not every body loses their hair completely. My body hair everywhere else thinned and seemed to stop growing but strangely, I did lose all my pubes, although when and where they went is still a mystery.  It was only after my 6th and final chemo that my eye lashes and eye brows thinned a bit.  Another cold cap lady I met at the same time thinks that she lost only about 40% of her hair but she had no bald spots and she looked fine. Although she did lose all her body hair.

Now there are a lot of scare stories about the cap; headaches, unbearable pain etc which might put you off even trying it. But my advice is, if you are really desparate to keep your hair then try it. 

So here are the facts:

You have to wet your hair and rub conditioner into it at the start of each chemo. This improves the freezing ability of the cap. The nurses will always help you with this.

Yes it is unbearable for the first 10 mins. I used to shuffle my feet around and squeeze my eyes shut and wring my hands, anything to take my mind off the extreme discomfort.  But once your scalp gets used to it after those 10 mins or so, it no longer hurts. The cap freezes your scalp to -4 degrees I was told and ice actually forms on your scalp.

I took 2 paracetamol tablets an hour beforehand and I took 2 more 3 hours later, before the others had worn off. These helped to keep headaches at bay and also any irritation with the tight straps. Don't let the straps be done up so tight that you cannot bear them. Insist they loosen them a little and ignore the "it wont work" warnings. The straps need to be tight but should not be unbearable, especially the chin one. Ask them to put a little piece of lint under the chin strap if it irritates.

It does add an hour to the length of the treatment as the cap has to be on for at least 30 mins before the chemo is given and then you have to keep the cap on for at least 20 mins after the finish of treatment to allow your scalp to defrost although the machine is switched off as soon as the chemo finishes. Removing the cap before defrosting takes place can damage your hair.

As I say, for me it was very successful and it might not be for other people. But looking like yourself all through chemo and the months after can have a marvellous effect on how you feel. So, if you are thinking about it, give it a go and I hope you are pleased that you did. Good luck.

  • Glad you find this threat helpful!

    Mine was to around my shoulder blades. I always wear it up in a ponytail away from my face, no fringe. I had to cut it during lockdown so my husband had to do it, which was a waste of good hair to give to a charity, but needs must. He basically just cut off the ponytail leaving just enough hair to go into the elastic. This means that my hair is of graduating lenght, to just above shoulders at the front, pretty short at the back, but as I say, just long enough to go into a ponytail. He had to cut it with my sewing scissors and a proper hairdresser will probably faint when they see it (plan to have it done properly at the end of my chemo sessions, assuming it is still all there). I have always had long hair, below my shoulder blades or to my waist and been totally resistant to having my hair cut in the past but I have to say I actually really like my new hair style and plan to keep it like this (properly cut). So maybe see it as an opportunity for change and at the end of the day it will grow out again!

    Best of luck with it all!

  • Such fantastic advise. I'm on my 2nd round of Chemo of 6 , 3rd next week. Like you say, it's bearable for me, but after about 30 minutes they put the heated seat on and I wear a warm scarf and it's fine. 
    The other bit of advise I was told on my second round from one of the nurses was that you shouldn't wash your until 24hrs after the cold cap and  only wash and dry your hair in cool water and a cool dryer as when then chemo rises up to the roots, keeping it cool is best as heat draws the chemo up and causes the hair to fall out. I wasn't told this on my 1st round and showered in hot water. Sadly I lost most off the top and my right side where I sleep and heat builds up, so maybe there is truth in this theory. 
    it definitely make you feel better putting a hat on and still having hair at the front. 
    Good luck everyone  

  • Bless you, I wish you well. I feel the same and am trying the cap tomorrow.

    I really hope you won't mind me sharing my story.  I have waist length silky brown hair.

    Just one thing, I went to a wig consultation and was not impressed. The hairdresser said to me that I had beautiful hair and that hair is everything to a women. Suddenly I had a lightbulb moment and thought differently.  My family, friends and life are everything to me and some of those people have lost more than hair. They will always love me and no-one else matters much. So I am trying the cold cap but am not mourning my hair any longer. 

    I cried my last tears over it the moment she caused my epiphany. Good luck to you and I hope you get well and stay well. Xx