Good for you Tigecub. Counselling is great but it doesn’t cure or control cancer, it can o ly help us to adjust to what cancer has done, is doing and might do it the future. 

If I don’t speak to you before, have a good  Christmas. You’ve eared it. . 

Hi thanks .I told her I'm not against councilling altogether just to talk about it all can be upsetting I think I could probably need it after surgery and recovery and getting life back on track and adjust going back work .what ever normal is in this life .and happy Xmas to you 

Exactly. The time it might be most useful is when the treatment is finished and you are then trying to go forward  to whatever your future holds, that's the scary bit you might need to work through.

Sod the house, enjoy your time with family!  Oops, that was a bit rude, even for me! ️

That's ok I swear all time

Hi thanks it's nice hear from people who had councilling.dont think hubby would want go not his thing .I think when it's about getting over ops got have 2 at least .then got see if I qualify for pip payment it's just all so annoying messing about I call it.have good xmas