Is there anyone on here who has had anal squamous cell cancer x
Is there anyone on here who has had anal squamous cell cancer x
How is everyone?
I'm feeling miserable today! Just received a curt letter from Payroll saying that my full pay ceased on the 13th April and my half pay will cease on the 13th June.
The last thing I need right now is money worries and now it means I’ll possibly be returning to work way before I am ready and well enough! Not happy!
Trouble is, I know at some point I will be having further treatment for this liver secondary, but I don’t have a clue, how long off that is, what they’ll do and how long i’ll need to recover after that!?! Just fed up.
Lisa xx
Hi Lisa
Thats not so good last think you want to worry about. I know they’ll say oh it’s standard letters but really a wee belter t of compassion and common sense should be used. At the Maggies I go to there are benefit advisors who help you see if you are entitled to any benefits while you are unable to work - I think MacMillan offer a similiar service it is definitely worth checking out and one man I know gets a work pension but was also entitled to a benefit - can’t remember the name of it - do you have any of those services near you?
I think they make it really difficult to put people off so if you can get help I’d try.
How are you doing apart from that?
Ive had a rubbish week too - I’d b en getting wee floaters in my eye for the last few weeks and kept getting it checked and told they’d go away but on Tuesday my optician had a more detailed look and sent me straight to the eye hospital where they found two wee tears in my retina so had to get it lasered there and then!
Honestly if it’s not one thing it’s another so Iwas feeling pretty sorry for myself :-(( but then I remember that my treatment is over and I’m in remission so gave myself a shake and getting on with it lol!
you take care and see if you can get any advice
Sands xx
Hi Lisa
Sorry that you are fed up but try Macmillan, this gave me a booklet on benefits cancer patients can claim and I’m sure they would help you male a claim too.
I’m still on full pay at the moment so couldn’t claim anything but that’s ok with me.
hope treatment going well, I’m on day 3 and it’s okish so far I do feel queasy and have heartburn but my main problem is sleep which I think are the steroids, woke up at 2 am today but have had some naps from then to now. I supoose I’m just glad I don’t have to do anything, hubby is looking after me!
take care Lynne.xx
Hi Sands
good job you noticed something wrong with you eye, my hubby at the end of January had an emergency op as his had become detached, all good now though he is just waiting for final follow appointment and will probably need a change in his prescription. Apparently it’s quite common for those of us who are shortsighted. Another thing to add to the list!
keep smiling Sands you will get there.
Lynne xx
Thanks Lynne glad your hubby doing ok hopefully they got mine in time to get check up next week!
Was just feeling sorry for myself if it’s not one end getting zapped it’s the other
I found helped he sleeping hard as well wide awake during the night then could sleep all day - just you r st as much as you can take care
Sands xx