The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Hi Sandra 

    Bad:-still struggling with bug getting towards a month now (immune system not very good) going to phone specialist this week see if any ideas.

    Good :- bren no worse. And both still on the go. Bella typical youngster being a nucience and into everything she shouldn't..

    Hope everyone is as good as can be. Bless you all.. Love Billy xxx 

    P.s sundial waiting for those pic's 

  • Hello everyone! Glad to see everyone is going ok as they can.  Working in a supermarket I have seen the “bulk” paying first hand! Just wonder where some people put all what they brought! Worse than Christmas but can’t blame people. Stay safe everyone. 

    The Good- mums hospital appointment today for results! Nodule is smaller, heart good for her age and same with her lungs. 

    The Bad- mums blood pressure very high but putting it down to worrying what she may hear today. Mum has a large hiatus hernia which is pushing up on her lungs. Seems to have grown in last three months. This seems to be why her breathing isn’t any better but worse. Now to see her doctor again and see what he suggests. Mum doesn’t want an operation but need to see what they say. 

    Stay warm as it’s cold today xx 

  • Sorry Billy

    No pics yet. Wardrobes not being fitted until next week then decor and carpet at the end of the month. It's on my list to do though.

    Sundial

  • Hi billy

    think you are doing the right thing contacting them... you def need to look after yourself too. 
     

    good news on the Bren and Bella front... they not half keep you on ya toes :) x

     

     

  • Ah that's brill news about ya mum. Bet it's a relief to find out why her breathing is laboured. have a glass of wine lass you deserve some you time. 

    I get the panic buying.. although I've not gone down that route myself. Any signs of temp, cough etc and they want you self isolating now. Then on the news they had a bloke form Italy coming to the uk looking for work he said. He said he was a bit worried they would send him back but was gonna try anyway. Something just seems so wrong with that.... sigh.

    have another glass of wine lass to recharge those batteries ;)


     

     

  • Worth the wait sundial :) x

  • Morning peeps

    bad :- well we failed miserably at the murder mystery we have no sleuthing skills whatsoever lol. Was professor plum ( the tell was he could fasten his shoe lace... I mean seriously).

    good :- had a fab long weekend away with my daughters ( it was both their Birthdays). 
     

    we popped into a Wetherspoons nd daughters put on fbook which one and table number and their friends were going on the app to buy them drinks... the barman just kept turfing up with them. I didn't know this was a thing. They had to put on for people to stop cos we couldn't keep up lol. ( worse for wear don't even cover it.. might have contributed to failing at the murder mystery).

    saw Anne Brontes grave.. original headstone said died age 28. Then there is another stone that says no, no, she was 29 lol. 

    Anywhose... have as good a day as you can peeps x

  • Well as I always do as I am told I will have a couple of glasses of wine tonight as day off tomorrow! X 

  • Hi beach 

    Wish i could have a drink, shame I'm allergic. Still trying to figure out hospital appointment other week. 

    When i checked i was nearly two months behind so phoned up in the morning got call back afternoon for next morning. So mad rush to arrange for someone to look after bren. Get in early. Find out old specialist packed in so everything a mess. Makes me wonder how many people haven't had there proper appointment date and not realised. Luckily everything OK i hope still waiting for blood results.

    Hope everyone is well as can be. 

    Love Billy xxx 

  • Morning peeps 

    bad :- cold day and I now seem to chill to the bone so easily... sigh

    good :- school run done nd in the toasty warm conservatory with a latte and my book. Gonna do nothing ( other than washing and drying clothes) till it's time to up the lil ones.... annnnd relax :)

    have as good a day as you can peeps x