The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

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    Hi Jbains,

    Crying can relieve a lot of the frustration, so don't worry when you have a down day, there are always sunnier times ahead.

    I am sorry to hear that you are stuck with the nerve damage. I agree with Billygoat, make sure that you get a reputable brand if you decide to go down the CBD route. A puppy would be great company for you, especially when your son and daughter are not at home. It would also force you out for a wee walk every day and, you'd be amazed how many people you meet when you are out walking a dog.

    I hope that you enjoyed your shopping trip.

    Kind regards,
    Jolamine xx

  • Lol love it Dizzel. You enjoy your lifted spirit. Here for the good and the bad lass ️X

  • Bless jbains it's like your immune system has been knocked out of whack. Hope you feel better soon me dear. Lots of bugs around at min so look after yourself. Whatever it takes to keep you as well as you can be is your priority. X

  • Sorry meant jolamine not melamine lol. Predictatext always catches me out x

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    Hi Dizzle,

    Don't worry about it, I answer to any name. I'm so glad that you are still doing well.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Afternoon peeps 

    bad :- none yayyy

    good :- has a fab duvet day... lil ones will be back in a couple of hrs - they've had a fab time for lil ones bday ( actually her bday next wk but early celebrations with just her besties) ️ 

    lil ones did a fab job putting the bday cake together (phew lol)... they were super proud of themselves ️
    hope everyone has had as good a day as they can x

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  • Awwww that looks lovely Sandra x

  • Ta muchly : I made the fairy toppers nd the lil ones made the flowers nd put it all together... they did good :) x

  • Morning peeps 

    bad :- I always seem to swing between hot hot hot or... Baltic to the point needing blanket nd hot water bottle.... sigh.

    good :- lil one hyper cos we have snow. Roads creating the annual struggle of not being able to get up the inclines nd everyone taking turns pushing cars up them. 
     

    be warm, be safe and have as good a day as you can peeps x

  • Afternoon everyone,

    Sandra I feel your pain. My house either freezing so I whack up the heating then in half hour it's a furnace! There is no inbetween!

    Bad....having to take my daughter to school on the bus as her dads working away, which is a 2 hour round trip in this awful weather. Thank god for my weighty backside or I'd have been blown away 

    Good.....lovely family weekend (Jamie's of course as still no sign of mine). Was Jamie's nana 87th bday lunch. She has dementia so says the same things over and over and always asks your name but really enjoyed her day bless her. Oh and my little Vinnie is 6 months old today. Where has that time gone!!!

    Dont blow away people. Have a good rest of the day xx