The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Hello peeps... promised will pop on every couple of wks so here's my pop on :D

    any more news on yr mam beachbabe... been thinking of you ️

    what fab news from you billy... you were due some bless. Hope all is well with u Bren nd Bella.

    oh my Dizzel Vinnie is adorable nd some ain't he ️ Got everything crossed for u nd Jamie... keep us updated please. Hugs to you all ️

    lol Chrissy I could just eat that fish nd chips (mushy peas mmmm).... keep a virtual seat in the restaurant with Billy for me please.... I'll be have the same as u ;)

    Lovely to see you posting too jolamine have some virtual fish nd chips with us :)

    just back from a weekend away seeing Cher ... she was absolutely amazing... her looks and vocals just wow. Her words.. "I'm a 73 yr old granny.. what's yr granny doing tonight?". Let's be like Cher folks ... age is just a number - frame of mind can be a game changer.

     Paul Young was her support.... oh dear ruined great memories of him cos on the night... he was absolutely rubbish.

    got my Halloween tree up with all my bits nd bobs on nd even made a skeleton fairy in a jar... lil ones said... love it gran but u know it's not real. They are 6&4 and already getting it ️
    Have as good a day as u can peeps ️ ️ ️

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  • Glad u got some compensation... I know a good hol was what u really wanted but hopefully the money will go to a bigger nd better hol. 
    has hubby got his appointment date for next month yet... hopefully he will pulled around just in time for Christmas.

    maggie may is such a charmer ain't she ️ Unconditional love sitting there right in front of you... heartwarming x

  • Hi Sandra....hi everyone

    Yes hubby is in hospital next Wednesday for more kidney stones treatment. Hopefully home the same or next day. 
    The money has gone towards next years cruise to Norway and Denmark. 
    Yes Maggie May is a sweetie......most of the time. Lol

    Dizzle, Vinnie gets more adorable month by month. Hope everything goes well with tests. 
     

    Take care everyone.

    Sundial

     

  • Hi all just to confirm bren has dementia got to have more tests yet, not bad when you think she went like this before Xmas 2018,hope you're keeping going best wishes... Billy xxx 

  • Ah brill sundial a holiday is always someti look forward too. Will be thinking of u nd hubby for his op. Let us know how it goes. Hope maggiemay has been ok with the fireworks x

  • Oh I didn't know Billy sorry. Terrible disease- so glad she has you by her side ️. Look after yourself x

  • Morning peeps... popped on to check on everyone. 
     

    the bad :- none yay

    the good :- up early to go to daughters to have homemade waffles yum. About t get ready for a full family outing to the cinema to see maleficent good times. 
     

    this meme tickled me cos could soooo relate. Have as good a day as u can peeps ️
     

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  • Love it Sandra...

    I must admit, I do feel a tad jealous when out and those older then me .. some much older, run past me ..  always thought I'd be a fit 65 year old .. well at least I can still dream ... as long as I can play with grandkids , even though it's on a game console... I'm happy ...  

    Great to here from you ...  here's to kicking cancers ***.... Dizzle, thinking of you all ... still got everything crossed ...  Chrissie    

  • Evening everyone, just popped on to see how everyone is. My mum has her appointment for her ct scan 13th December she also has an appointment on 9th December to see someone at hospital about her breathlessness. Still no better really worried about it. 

    Hugs to you all xx 

  • Hi there beachbabe...

    It's even worse waiting for someone we loves results ... got everything crossed for her .. we only get one mum .. and if wer blessed to have a good one, then I'm sure your right there holding her up ... 

    I've got my second year appointment with oncology surgeon... next Tuesday at an ungodly hour of 8.30 a.m .. and 40 minutes from hospital ... but hay ho .. at least gets it done early ... must admit, I do have a soft spot for him .. I know, must act my age ..  lol .. 

    Well hope everyone is doing o.k .. thinking of you Dizzle... still got everything crossed, which isn't easy at my age ... but always thinking of you all ..  so xmas is all around again ... where did this year go .. so here's to kicking cancers *** into next year too ... 

    Big hug to you all ...  Chrissie