The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Hi Dizzle lovely pics thanks your going to have to watch him when the girls start chasing him, best wishes... Billy 

  • Love the pics - grace looks like you ️. 

    Aww little vinnie is coming along nicely ️

    Id be more surprised if you didn’t have moments of worry for your lil  ones and your illness. Going with we all have these moments. I suspect we always will. Think we need to keep it reigned in and not stop our happiness.

    try to let your happiness run your life... embrace every moment. Don’t be afraid to seek help from your gp if you need to.

    you deserve every moment of the happiness you have lass ️ X

  • I’m so please you have finally got some good news..... so happy Bella is ok:) x

     

  • Been 4 weeks but said about 7 weeks because of holidays!! X 

  • Well nice to know our nhs is 24/7 365 days of the yr barring holidays!

    everything crossed for good news lass. X

     

     

  • Morning peeps 

    bad :- none yay!

    good :- still in bed contemplating getting up:D

    have as good a day as you can peeps x

  • Good morning everyone hope your all up and dressed after all it is Sunday, God bless you all,, just a quick note got phone call Friday another hoist coming on Monday can only hope it works better than other one, could be a laugh again, still don't know when carers are coming though,

    Hope all are well best wishes.. Billy 

  • Hi everyone some maybe, good news hoist works well, but I'm not allowed to use it on my own, so I carry on as normal and carers us hoist, we're also getting a bed hoist, because carers arnt allowed to lift bren off bed and onto wheelchair,, the house will soon be filled with hoists what I can't use, it's mad, 

    Some good news should have Dr or nurse coming weekly to check on her, though don't know when it starts. Best wishes to all......... Billy 

  • [[ ]]Hi everyone.

    Fjords holiday a bit of a wash out. Raining and very cold most every day but scenery beautiful. No sitting on balcony. The ship we’d loved before was a disappointment. Food awful, entertainment lack lustre and service grumpy. Blah de blah!

    Even worse came back,hubby taken ill, spent all early Tuesday morning at A and E and ended up in hospital having emergency surgery to remove kidney stones. They also took biopsies from the bladder where they saw something unusual. Scared! 

    On the plus side hubby now home, sleeping off anaesthetic and the weather is warmer.

    Hope everyone can find something positive in their day.

    Sundial

  • Sundial.....hope everything is ok with hubby and it's nothing sinister. Think going through what we've gone through we will always think the worst. Fingers crossed it's nothing.

    Hope everyone else is ok. Been really busy with house...got new flooring, driveway all concreted and new front door etc....been hectic. Vinnie sleeps all day and is awake most of the night. Typical but I cant be angry at him. Just looking at his little face melts my heart. 

    I had a delivery yesterday of some lovely flowers and a card that tells me Jamie has booked for me and little sister to have a spa day with treatments and prosecco, a 2 course dinner and to see motown the musical. I was overwhelmed with how thoughtful he had been. Really is a keeper. Also gave our notice of marriage tuesday so all is booked for 4th of sept next year. Just need to lose about 12 stone lol. 

    Got my appointment through for the 10th of oct for my yearly mammogram. Bit nervous but glad I have it as been having a bit of tenderness where I had my mastectomy. Apparently it's common but feels like a very familiar pain. Hopefully nothing though. Dont know if anyone a corrie fan but last nights episodes were heartbreaking. Makes me realise how lucky I am. Anyway......more baby spam :-) have a fab day everyone xx

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